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Le tribunal de la famille et plus : un guide pour les survivantes de violence entre partenaires intimes qui naviguent le tribunal de la famille

Cette ressource propose des renseignements juridiques généraux et des réponses à des questions communes sur le tribunal de la famille et d’autres processus légaux durant et après des expériences de violence entre partenaires intimes (VPI).

Le PDF complet de la publication fournit plus de détails que cette page. La présente page sert d’aperçu pour vous aider à décider si le guide peut vous être utile, avec des liens vers la publication complète et des sections particulières dignes d’intérêt.

Ces renseignements sont généraux et ne constituent pas des conseils juridiques. Comme toutes nos publications, les renseignements dans ce guide étaient exacts au moment de la publication (décembre 2025).

Il se peut que vous vous demandiez les options légales qui s’offrent à vous, ou vous pourriez déjà être dans un système juridique, ou dans plusieurs systèmes. Si vous avez des questions ou besoin d’appui dans ce processus, nous vous encourageons à contacter un navigateur d’aide juridique (Legal Support Navigator) au Journey Project. Un navigateur d’aide juridique est un membre du personnel qui peut offrir du soutien émotif et de l’aide à naviguer le système juridique pendant que vous réfléchissez à vos options, ainsi que tout au long du processus juridique.

Si vous souhaitez parler à un navigateur d’aide juridique, vous pouvez nous contacter par courriel, texto, téléphone ou sur nos pages de médias sociaux. Nous sommes disponibles du lundi au vendredi de 9 h à 16 h.

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La ligne d’aide à la violence familiale est un numéro d’aide sans frais à l’échelle de la province et elle est accessible 24 h par jour, 7 jours par semaine. 

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Introduction

Language is important. It holds a lot of power. At the Journey Project, we may use different words to encompass the wide breadth of experiences of the individuals we work with. You may identify with the word “survivor,” “victim,” both, or neither. The legal systems you engage with may refer to you as a “victim,” “complainant,” “applicant,” or “witness,” even though you may not identify with any of these terms. This is the language used by different legal systems and may not align with your experience or identity.

Throughout this guide, we reference a variety of sources and pieces of legislation to provide accurate information. These materials sometimes use language that may differ from the words you prefer or identify with, including gender-specific terms found in legislation. Where possible, we have aimed to use inclusive and respectful language while still reflecting the wording of the original sources.

You may notice that the terms partner and ex-partner are sometimes used interchangeably throughout this guide. We understand that relationships can be complicated and that people’s experiences don’t always fit simple labels.

The terms child and children are also used interchangeably. The number of children involved varies in each situation and depends on individual family circumstances, parenting arrangements, and the specifics of any court orders. In some cases, the wording reflects how these terms appear in legislation and related legal materials.

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Gender-Based Violence

Gender-based violence (GBV) is any form of violence perpetrated against someone based on their gender, gender expression, gender identity, or perceived gender. GBV disproportionately affects women, girls, and gender-diverse individuals. GBV is entrenched in negative attitudes and stereotypes and can take many forms, including physical, sexual, societal, psychological, emotional, economic, and technology-facilitated violence. [1]

Intimate partner violence and sexual violence are forms of GBV in which women, girls, and gender-diverse individuals are targeted at exceedingly high rates. Certain populations that are targets of GBV or underserved when they are subjected to these forms of violence include Indigenous women and girls; Black and racialized women; immigrant and refugee women; Two-Spirit, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex, and additional sexually and gender-diverse (2SLGBTQIA+) people; people with disabilities; women age 15 – 24; and women living in Northern, rural, and remote communities.[2]

GBV is rooted in gender inequality and is intensified by systemic inequalities, such as sexism, discrimination based on sexual orientation, gender identity and expression, colonialism, racism, ableism, classism, poverty, ageism, and a collective history of trauma. GBV can have long-lasting negative health, social, and economic consequences, often leading to intergenerational cycles of violence and abuse.[3] Canada’s 2022 National Action Plan on Gender-Based Violence calls for a responsive justice system, recognizing that gender-based violence is a violation of human rights.

In this guide we use the term “survivor” to highlight the inherent strength and resourcefulness of the individuals we support, counteracting the inherent power imbalance that occurs when there is intimate partner violence and/or sexual violence. We know that not everyone who has had these experiences would identify as a survivor. We also know that how we identify and talk about our experiences can change with time, context, and circumstance. Sexual violence and intimate partner violence are forms of gender-based violence, which is predominantly perpetrated by cisgender men.[4] Women in heterosexual relationships are much more likely than men to be the targets of violence perpetrated by an intimate partner.[5] We also know that the rate of intimate partner violence among same-sex couples is comparable to or higher than that among heterosexual couples.[6] The term “survivor” is limited in that it does not articulate the gendered nature of who is subjected to IPV, nor does it acknowledge the heteronormative lens that is often associated with the types of relationships in which intimate partner violence occurs.[7] However you choose to name your experience and/or identity is valid and will be honoured.

Is This Guide for Me?

If you are being, or have been, subjected to intimate partner violence and want to know more about family law and the family court process, this guide is for you.

The legal information in this guide is specific to Newfoundland and Labrador. These laws will be different in each province and territory, and outside Canada.

Knowing where to turn or what supports are available when navigating family court can feel overwhelming. The survivors we work with and those who are navigating legal systems have identified numerous barriers. Barriers include the lack of communication between criminal and family court, post-separation abuse, the lack of family court navigation support, and a general lack of understanding of the court process and legal rights.   

Sorting out the many family law issues that come up at the end of a relationship, especially when you have an ex-partner who is abusive, can be overwhelming. The more information you have – about the law, court processes, the people you will encounter on your journey – the better you will be able to manage your way through the system. 

People who engage in abusive behaviours often seek out new ways to exert control over their partners or ex-partners, especially around the time of separation when they are starting to lose power in the relationship. In many cases, the family court system becomes one of the ways to maintain power.

By equipping yourself with information and understanding the tactics of abuse and how they relate to the family court system, you can strengthen your defences against this form of abuse. In this guide, we discuss abuse that continues after separation (post-separation abuse) and legal abuse, as well as strategies to help protect yourself.

How Should I Use This Guide?

The material contained in this guide is legal information only and not legal advice. Only a lawyer who is aware of the facts of your situation can provide you with legal advice. We strongly encourage you to obtain legal advice whenever possible before you make any major decisions about your case or agree to any suggestions made by your ex-partner or your ex-partner’s lawyer.

The information in this guide is accurate and current to the date of publication (2025). Please be aware that laws, their interpretation and application, as well as services, change over time. We will do our best to update the online version of this guide as we become aware of changes; however, if you are using a printed version, please note the copyright date to determine how current it is.

Section 1 focuses on safety and well-being, providing foundational information and practical tools to help individuals recognize, assess, and respond to intimate partner violence. It begins by defining IPV and outlining common abusive behaviours, followed by guidance on identifying risk and understanding patterns of harm. The section offers step-by-step safety planning strategies, including plans tailored for children and for navigating safety concerns before, during, and after court proceedings. Practical checklists address safety at court, preparing to leave a partner, and setting boundaries with an ex-partner, alongside an overview of legal options that can support safety planning. Together, this section is designed to support informed decision-making and prioritize personal and family safety in complex and often high-risk situations.

Section 2 provides an overview of family law in Newfoundland and Labrador, with a focus on how the family court system operates and what to expect when navigating it. It explains the structure and roles of family law courts in the province, including information about the Intimate Partner Violence Intervention Court. This section walks readers through key considerations before starting a family court proceeding, outlines how to begin a family court case, and describes the main steps involved in a Supreme Court family law proceeding. It also highlights available family court support resources to help individuals prepare for and move through the process with greater clarity and confidence.

Section 3 focuses on family law supports related to parenting, children, and preparing for court. It explains how parenting arrangements are addressed after separation, including decision-making responsibility and how courts determine the best interests of the child, with particular attention to the impact of family violence. Practical tools such as worksheets, tip sheets, and frequently asked questions support parents in developing parenting plans and understanding their responsibilities. This section also provides detailed guidance on evidence, including what types of evidence may be relevant, how to gather and present it effectively, and how to prepare an affidavit. It concludes with information on post-separation abuse, highlighting how patterns of control and harm can continue after separation and within legal processes.

Section 4 offers a concise overview of immigration-related issues that may arise when experiencing or leaving an abusive relationship. It explains what may happen if an individual was sponsored by a partner and how family violence can affect immigration status and available options. This section highlights key pathways for protection and stability, including Temporary Resident Permits for victims of family violence and applications on humanitarian and compassionate grounds. It also notes how divorce may intersect with immigration processes and identifies interpretation support in court proceedings to help ensure meaningful access to justice.

Section 5 provides a focused overview of family court considerations for Indigenous survivors. It outlines key aspects of the court process, including child protection and property division, while recognizing the importance of cultural context and connection. This section introduces Cultural Connection Plans and highlights the role of the Newfoundland and Labrador Family Information Liaison Unit (NL FILU) in supporting Indigenous families. It also identifies relevant supports and resources to help Indigenous survivors navigate family court in ways that respect their rights, safety, and cultural connections.

Section 6 highlights considerations for individuals navigating family law and safety planning in northern, rural, and remote communities. It addresses unique safety concerns, including the presence of firearms, and challenges related to communication and access to services. This section also offers guidance on finding a lawyer and navigating court processes in contexts where resources may be limited or geographically distant, with a focus on practical strategies to support safety and access to justice.

Section 7 explores how family violence can intersect with other legal systems and proceedings. It explains the relationship between child protection and family violence, including what may happen if a family is reported to child protection services and considerations when reporting an ex-partner. This section also examines how child protection involvement can affect family court proceedings, outlines key aspects of criminal law related to family violence, and provides guidance on navigating concurrent legal proceedings when multiple legal processes are happening at the same time.

CONCLUSION

This guide is designed to provide survivors of intimate partner violence with accessible information about family law and the family court process in Newfoundland and Labrador. It does not constitute legal advice. It highlights the realities of abuse, including post-separation and legal abuse, and offers strategies to help protect safety and well-being while navigating the system. While this summary provides an overview, the full publication offers more detailed guidance, practical tools, and resources to support informed decision-making and strengthen your ability to manage the legal process. We encourage you to consult the complete guide for comprehensive information tailored to your situation.

Acknowledgements

The Journey Project acknowledges and thanks survivors, community partners, and service providers for sharing insight, feedback, and recommendations that have informed this guide.

The Journey Project also thanks and recognizes Luke’s Place Support and Resource Centre for Women and Children for making this workbook possible. A significant amount of content within this resource has been adapted, with permission, from Luke’s Place. The Journey Project adapted content from two resources: ‘Family Court and Beyond: A Survival Workbook for Women’ and ‘The Law and Parenting Arrangements After Separation Under the Divorce Act: A National Toolkit of Legal and Safety Information for Women Leaving Abuse’ to create this guide.

Luke’s Place is a non-profit, registered charitable organization serving women in Durham Region, Ontario who have been subjected to abuse. Since 2003, Luke’s Place has provided legal support services to women who have left abusive relationships and are engaged with the family law process. Luke’s Place also works at the provincial and national levels, conducting research, developing resources, providing training and engaging in systemic advocacy.

For more information about Luke’s Place, please visit: https://lukesplace.ca/ 

[1] Government of Canada. (2024). Facts, stats and WAGE’s impact: Gender-based violence. https://www.canada.ca/en/women-gender-equality/gender-based-violence/facts-stats.html#affected 

[2] Government of Canada. (2022). National action plan to end gender-based violence. https://www.canada.ca/en/women-gender-equality/gender-based-violence/intergovernmental-collaboration/national-action-plan-end-gender-based-violence/first-national-action-plan-end-gender-based-violence.html#toc0

[3] Government of Canada. (2024). Facts, stats and WAGE’s impact: Gender-based violence. https://www.canada.ca/en/women-gender-equality/gender-based-violence/facts-stats.html#affected

[4] Conroy, S. & Cotter, A. (2017). Self-reported sexual assault in Canada, 2014. Canadian Centre for Justice Statistics; Ramsawakh, D. (2025). Rethinking Masculinities: Understanding diverse and intersecting masculinities to end Gender-Based Violence (GBV). Learning Network Brief 46. London, Ontario: Centre for Research & Education on Violence Against Women & Children. 

[5] Cotter, A. (26 April 2021). Intimate partner violence in Canada, 2018: An overview. Canadian Centre for Justice and Community Safety Statistics. https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/n1/en/pub/85-002-x/2021001/article/00003-eng.pdf?st=E_medytN

[6] Rollè, L., Giardina, G., Caldarera, A.M., Gerino, E. and Brustia, P. (2018). When intimate partner violence meets same sex couples: A review of same sex intimate partner violence. Frontiers in Psychology, 9(1506)). doi: 10.3389/fpsyg.2018.01506

[7] Kar, A., Das, N., Broadway-Horner, M., Kumar, P. (2022). Intimate partner violence in same-sex relationships: Are we aware of the implications? Journal of Psychosexual Health, 5(1), 13-19. doi:10.1177/26318318221134268

Bien que le présent site emploie principalement le féminin pour désigner les personnes survivantes, ce choix grammatical sert strictement à simplifier le texte et ne vise pas à exclure les personnes qui s’identifient au genre masculin. Toutes les victimes, quelle que soit leur identité sexuelle ou de genre, sont invitées à communiquer avec le Journey Project à leur convenance.